I suck at this

Otter, as your good friend, if you want my opinion, I will give it you in the best, unvarnished way possible. If he's really missing you- or if he's really into you as he says he is- time or distance should not be an issue. True, you get to know a person by spending time with them and it's more convenient if they're accesible, proximity-wise. But we have technology now. What's a few minutes of leaving a pm? Or a five-minute call saying he can't stay long on the phone but he misses you? As my professor in sociology said, "True love is beyond space, time, culture and religion." I had high hopes for Blue Fox, yes, but I was disappointed with the way he didn't seem to consider your effort to fly aaaaaalll the way to where he is, just to be with him. He may or he may never call but men are simple-minded creatures. If they like you, they ask for your number and ask you out. If they miss you, they call. Or leave a message. At this point, Otter, you have to ask yourself and consider the possibility of, I dunno, just focusing on yourself first. Find a stimulating job, get a place, use your talents in writing and the arts, volunteer for something you believe in... You know, just focus on doing things for yourself, and challenge yourself. Instead of using all your time waiting for Blue Fox, go back to yourself. Think of you. You've got way more opportunities there compared when you were in the Phil. You're an awesome person Otter! If Blue Fox is not willing to spend even five minutes of his life for you, that's something to think about. I suck at giving opinions and advice because I'm too straightforward. Wants to dance some more, Awkward Turtle